Through Stained Glass: A Mid-Week Reflection-The Tale of a Totally Unsuspecting Traveler

(This is the third of four reflections from a group of us, based on our recent visit to the Abbey of Gethsemani in Trappist, Kentucky over the weekend. Over the course of the next few weeks, others will share their insights and revelations, poems and epiphanies emergent from this adventure.)

The Tale of a Totally Unsuspecting Traveler

 This week’s guest reflection is by First Presbyterian member, Pat Baker. Pat is a writer and poet at heart, a retired schoolteacher by trade, and a lover of literature. She is the wife to Joe and the mother to Amanda. A proud southern Illinois girl, Pat calls Lincoln home and cheers for the Cubs when she isn’t reading William Maxwell.

I asked myself, not for the first time, “exactly,how and why did I wind up involved in a retreat to The Abbey of Gethsemani?”

In the letter written by the PNC, introducing Adam and Teresa, I was pleased at Adam’s mention of two authors, Wendell Berry, a favorite of a cousin of mine who was a Catholic priest, and Thomas Merton, a vaguely familiar name due to Bruce’s many references to him, 2 pastors, 2 interims, and 30 odd years ago. Soon after his arrival, Adam and I came to discuss books and writing styles frequently. He eagerly shared a few of his vast (he’s 29?) book collection. I enjoyed Rob Bell’s Drops Like Stars and bought my own copy, but the first Merton book I attempted to read left me more than a little confused and uncertain. I saw disappointment in Adam’s eyes when I returned it saying, “I’m not sure I ‘get’ his ideas on contemplation.”

Thankfully, Adam didn’t give up there, and neither did I. Slowly, with help from Adam’s sermons and books by Barbara Brown Taylor, Anne Lamott, and others, Merton’s words began to open my eyes to a new way of exploring and expanding my faith.  I began to envy Merton’s unmatched ability to describe deepening his relationship with God. And I became very curious about the place Merton chose to live for over 27 years and where he is buried, and why this area in central Kentucky became so special to a man who had lived in and traveled to many other countries.

In preparation for this mental and physical journey, I made a list of terms I saw as central to the trip:

·      silence—The condition or quality of being or keeping still and silent. 2. The absence of sound; stillness. 3. A period of time without speech or noise.

·      Contemplation—Deep reflective thought. 2. concentration on spiritual things as form of private devotion.

·      Retreat—The act of giving up and withdrawing or a time away in a quiet and secluded place where you can relax.

I then explored many websites seeking further information on the Abbey. Its history is remarkable and impressive. Amid 2,200 acres in the hills of Nelson County, Kentucky, the 166-year-old Abbey of Gethsemani is known for its peace and tranquility. It is a part of the Order of Cistercians of the Strict Observance, better known as the Trappists. Founded on December 21, 1848 and raised to an abbey in 1851, Gethsemani is considered to the motherhouse of all Trappist and Trappistine monasteries in the United States and is the oldest monastery in the United States that is still operating. Currently 42 Monks are in residence there.

The night before the trip, I felt well prepared.  Our group planned on having blocks of time for our own use. Reading was a priority for me.  I also wanted to keep a written record of what I saw and experienced. I added a few tasty provisions to stave off starvation.

My former “teacher bag” was adequately filled with appropriate items for the weekend ahead:

1). 2 books, Acts of Faith ( Book Nook selection, about half read), An Invitation to the Contemplative Life, by Thomas Merton, appropriate because he and his writings were the focal point for the trip,

2). an issue of Martha Stewart’s magazine, Living in case I had done enough serious contemplation for the day.

3). a travel journal

4). 3 pens and 2 pencils

5). my Daily Prayer Book, on which I’ve come to depend

6). snacks, for a different kind of sustenance

Sufficiently equipped to make the most of every moment of the trip, boredom would not be an issue. I had plenty of worthy reading material, and my journal contained many blank pages that waited for my weighty words.

The drive was filled with enjoyable conversation which allowed all of the travelers to get to know each other better. Periodically, Adam, appropriately sympathetic, provided a near photographic description of the many animals which met their untimely deaths along the road.

It was dark when we drove by the Abbey and arrived at the Bethany Spring Retreat House. Our curiosity would have to wait until morning. We were greeted by the owner and shown to the various bedrooms. After getting settled and exploring the large old farm house, we began to gather in the living room for an enjoyable and wide ranging conversation. Plans for the next day were determined by the Abbey’s schedule of prayer services, the liturgy of the hours:

3:15 am – Vigils; 5:45 am - Lauds; 7:30 am –; 12:15 pm – Sext; 2:15 pm – None; 5:30 pm – Vespers; 7:30 pm – Compline. 7:30 am seemed like a reasonable starting point for the next morning.

Night 1 – no reading, no writing.

We woke to an overcast and foggy day, and soon traveled about a mile down a narrow, winding, black topped lane. Our first glimpse captured the Abbey and its surrounding hills shrouded in wisps of fog and mist. It was captivating in a truly timeless way. The stark white of the Abbey walls sat in simple contrast to the muted colors of the trees and harvest ready fields of corn. The sacredness was perceptible even before the stillness and tranquility made themselves known.

Gethsemani was a very special place indeed.

There were signs that guided our way and requested silence as we entered the walkway.

When we entered the Abbey, the lighting was fittingly dim, the reverence almost tangible as we joined approximately 20 other worshipers. Soon doors began to open as men in long white robes with black scapula entered quickly, quietly, and with familiarity. Two or three yawned. The chanting began, and there were points in the liturgy for responses, but I was satisfied to simply take it all in. After 15 minutes the service was over, as simply as it began, and the Monks silently filed out.

At this time we were fortunate enough to meet and spend a few minutes with one of the Monks, Brother Paul Quenon, OCSO, who Adam had met while he was a student at Bellarmine University. Brother Paul is an established poet (excellent haiku) and a photographer. His easy smile and wise guidance touched us all. Our gifts of the books Billie Dyer, by William Maxwell, and Links, by Rev. Bruce Allison, and an excellent bottle of red wine were warmly received. As he turned Bruce’s book over and looked at his picture, he commented, “Ah, I like his face!” I imagine Bruce would have liked his too.

The rest of the day saw many of us attending five more prayer services, each one different, but their pattern soon became reassuringly familiar. We broke up in smaller groups and read or wrote or explored on our own. Later Adam led us on a pathway through the woods that passed several stunning sculptures, looking perfectly at home among the growth of the forest.

The more I observed and sensed, the clearer Merton’s attraction to this place became. The quiet, reverent, stillness became addictive as I considered all that I had heard and experienced. 

Compline was the final service of the evening, and it was quite special.  Conducted in complete darkness save for one candle, their prayers and hymns were especially comforting.  The power of the simple service was surprising and sustaining.

Before the ending of the day

creator of the world we pray

that with thy gracious favor thou

wouldst be our guard and keeper now

From fears and terrors of the night

defend us Lord by thy great might

and when we close our eyes in sleep

let hearts with Christ their vigil keep.

O Father, this we ask be done

through Jesus Christ thine only Son

who with the Paraclete and thee

now lives and reigns eternally.

Amen.

“Every day, seven times a day, day by day, week by week, year by year, beginning the day after they first arrived from France in 1848, and continuing until the end.  In a wild, sordid, noisy, violent world, we sing, we sing ancient songs, rich in history, graced by God, for our healing and the healing of the world.”

Night 2 –totally inadequate descriptions were added to the travel journal.

The next day, as we prepared to drive home, I laughed as I lifted my bulky teacher bag.  Two days before, I had smugly arrived certain that my bag held all that I would need, but in reality it held nothing I needed.  As I left, the bag was overflowing with lessons learned, practices begun, and a heartfelt appreciation for what is alive in the quiet of time.

The how and why I became involved in this journey had been made clear. “God is always there for us,” to quote a wise Monk. It is the intentional and unguarded listening that makes us aware and receptive. Thomas Merton described the Abbey as a place apart “to entertain silence in the heart and listen for the voice of God—to pray for your own discovery.” Thank you Gethsemani, you are a special place indeed!

Through Stained Glass: A Mid-Week Reflection-Prayer & Work

(This is the second of four reflections from a group of us, based on our recent visit to the Abbey of Gethsemani in Trappist, Kentucky over the weekend. Over the course of the next few weeks, others will share their insights and revelations, poems and epiphanies emergent from this adventure.)

 

This week’s guest blog is by Cathy Maciariello. When Cathy is not at First Presbyterian Church, she keeps busy in her hometown of Atlanta, Illinois by volunteering at the local library. You are likely to find her with a book in hand, tending her flowerbed during the growing seasons, and spinning many tales about her trips around the world.

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Ora et labora I

On the path to the prayer hut

there are no soft bells calling me to prayer

Instead, stones assert their

unyielding precedence.

Until you learn to pray with your feet

walking at Gethsemani is hard.

The holy impossibility of it can nail you

to the ground.

Under the silence, I listen for

Echoes.

In the tantalizing pain of old Kentucky stones,

there is a memory of Creation.

Don’t think for a moment that

God did not groan

with the work of it.

Who am I to resist the groaning?

Are not my tears prayers

of compliance?

Were there not there stones on the path

to Golgotha?

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There is a place in you where you have never been wounded, where there is still a sureness in you, where there’s a seamlessness in you, where there’s a confidence and tranquility in you.  The intention of prayer and spirituality and love is to now and again visit that kind of inner sanctuary. (John O’Donohue, Irish poet)

In college, I was that shy girl who never talked in class.  Truthfully, I was always so busy composing a perfect and abidingly intelligent response to whatever question was on the table that I just missed my opportunity.  I think I must have spoken about three sentences during my entire college classroom career.  That’s not such a bad thing.  Reticence can be a blessing, since—with a little time and distance—real meaning is free to emerge from the shadow of self-conscious rhetoric.

         This is why it has taken me some time to sort out my experience at the Abbey of Gethsemani.  I’ve been waiting for the shadows to fade.  Before we left for Kentucky, my spiritual adviser told me not to expect too much, repeating what a wise monk once told him:  “You get the retreat you get.”  So I went, with as few expectations as possible, but with the hope that surely “something” would happen.  I also went with a powerful memory: that during the inscrutable times of my life, God has shown a wonderful—if sometimes exasperating—way of gathering uncertainty into understanding and weaving the loose threads of my experience into a comfortable tapestry—if I simply have the patience to wait out the apparently inexplicable and accept whatever image appears—whether or not it resembles the meaning I am trying to make on my own. 

So for me to describe the impact of Gethsemani, I need to back up a bit and talk about a couple of those dangling threads….

         Several months ago, I visited Muir Woods.  I had wanted to do this for a long time, and I expected to be astounded.  But what got to me wasn’t the trees.  On the bus from San Francisco, our driver pointed to the massive granite walls hugging the road and said, “These rocks are a billion years old.  They’ve been here since California rose up from the bottom of the Pacific Ocean.”  And then we flew on by.  “Whoa, wait a minute,” I wanted to say.  “Stop!  I need to touch them.” 

Later, in the natural redwood cathedral that is Muir Woods—a place that should inspire prayer from anyone—I couldn’t find the words.  All I could think about were those rock walls.  Suddenly, the Creation story became very real and very personal.  I imagined the excruciatingly hard work of it: God’s hands lifting rock from the sea, laboring under the strain of birthing a continent, nearly weeping with the effort, and finally resting when the work was done.  And how many miles must Christ have walked even long before those final crushing days in Jerusalem, throat sore from all the preaching, callused feet bone tired, heart breaking from the ineptitude of his disciples?  Theoretically, I understood all this, but I had just never felt it.

Only Michelangelo’s breathtaking “Prisoners” at the Accademia in Florence have ever given me anything like this feeling—those massive, unforgettable figures heaving, willing their way out of the stone under the sculptor’s blade. In that moment in Muir Woods, I knew the reassurance of God’s continuing participation in Creation.  Just as God suffered with Christ on the cross, he also labored alongside Michelangelo, and agonized with the deaf Beethoven as he fought to bring his Ninth Symphony and all those haunting late string quartets to life.  God has been and is with us in every moment of Creation no matter how big or small—with the Apostle Paul and Nelson Mandela in prison, with victims of abuse, every woman in childbirth, every laborer in the fields, every struggling 4^th-grader trying to learn multiplication tables, even with me in my garden, feeling the pain of my blisters as if they were his own.  We are in this Creation thing together, and it is hard work.  Sometimes it hurts.  And sometimes you have a hard time praying in the midst of it. 

         The second memory I carried with me to Gethsemani was a dream I had a few weeks ago.  For some unknown reason, I was walking somewhere carrying an unidentified man on my back.  While I felt his weight, it wasn’t much of a burden, and he wrapped himself around my shoulders in a way that was more affectionate than demanding.  I could feel his warm breath even through my jacket.  When evening came, I laid him to sleep on the ground while I continued to walk in place until morning.  No progress on the journey—just a lot of apparently meaningless walking.  I was working, but to no conceivable end.   I had no idea what to think of all this, and the dream was still poking around at me when we arrived at the Abbey.

         That’s where the monks come in.  Here I was again—worrying myself over the meaning I could make when God was already busy tying up the loose ends for me.  Early on that first morning we met Brother Paul Quenon—fit, smiling, with penetrating eyes, an easy gift for laughter, and a tiny notebook with his latest Haiku tucked away in a pocket.  Not to mention an unfiltered insight that must be possible only for someone so attuned to silence and so unburdened by the world’s intrusions.  “God gives us too much,” he told us.  “Think about the abundance.  It’s just too much to bear.  Better not to talk about it.  We don’t.”  I know that feeling.

         I started paying closer attention to the monks and keeping time by their prayers.  Vigils, Lauds, Terce, Sext, None, Vespers, Compline.  My own “work” of the retreat kept time with their daily work responsibilities.  I read and wrote between prayers, took a walk in the woods with our little group, even found time for some shopping in the gift shop.  But always it was the prayers that drew me back.  Arriving early in the chapel, I would look forward to the doors opening as the monks wandered in one by one to take their places, to hearing their soft footsteps and the rustling of liturgical books, to anticipating the subtle rhythmic chants of the psalms—to disappearing into the “work” of the monks that is prayer.

         Seven times a day they pray.  Seven times a day, seven days a week, until the end of time.  The gift is nearly unbearable.

          I began thinking about the relationship between prayer and work, a relationship that, we know, helps define the monk’s day.  Ora et labora….prayer and work.  What would life be like if we, too, shaped our days like this?  Would we be more purposeful in both working and praying?  Would the boundaries between work and prayer begin to blur as they seem to do for the monks?  Would we think of prayer as our chief “work” or purpose?  Would our daily work obligations start to feel a lot more like prayer than meaningless walking in the night toward some destination we can’t see?  Would we call out to God unabashedly in both pain and gratitude as we stretch our “Creation muscles” in service to others?  Would we live our lives in a simpler rhythm that pulses with the transfusion that is God’s love—the love Brother Paul told us was better embraced than discussed?  Would we stop trying to make our own meanings and let God have his way with our hearts?  

 

Sister Joan Chittester says in her book, Wisdom Distilled from the Daily, “Work gives me a place in salvation.  It helps redeem the world from sin.  It enables creation to go on creating.  It brings us all one step closer to what the Kingdom is meant to be….The purpose of work…is to carry others, to care for them, and to see them safely home.”  I can think of nothing closer to prayer than this.  The dream of it—my dream—makes me smile.  Ora et labora…when done with God, is there really any difference? 

         Seven times a day they pray.  Seven times a day, seven days a week, until the end of time.  Somewhere in the world a monk is praying for me now—and will be for as long as I live.  There’s an overwhelming comfort in that, especially when I feel like I’m failing in my Creation responsibilities, when the effort is just too much, when I lose my way.  What the monks gave me at Gethsemani was the determination to just keep walking, the courage to wrap myself in the tapestry God is making for me, and the freedom to let him turn my footsteps into prayers.

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Ora et labora II

A cautious memory of dreams lingers

like silent mists on Kentucky hilltops

in reluctant contemplation

of the morning.

Who hasn’t fled from that moment

of first awakening—

too long even before the point verge

for certainty?

The hour of vigils.

Monks already about their daily work

begin the antiphonal prayer of daily watch,

garden gloves and caps tucked away in pockets.

O Lord, open my lips,

And my mouth will declare your praise.

Should I, yet asleep, hesitate before the day,

when God has already been praised?   

In the liturgy of the hours is a comfort

softer than first light or compline candle.

From dark to light to dark again,  

prayer and work without ceasing.

Lord have mercy.

Christ have mercy.

No matter the place or moment

of awakening,

monks are praying the miracle of the hours,

proof enough of Love.

Seven times a day, seven days a week

until the end of time. Amen.

From a dark crevice in the night

my voice rises

to join the chant.